Stay Safe East is the only user-led organisation in London working across all areas of abuse against Deaf and disabled people. Stay Safe East provides advocacy and long- term support to Deaf and disabled victims and survivors of hate crime, anti-social behaviour, domestic and sexual violence and carer/institutional abuse to disabled people in East London.
Why Stay Safe East is needed:
Disabled people are 3 times more likely to experience violent crime than non-disabled people.
Disability hatred leads to murder, yet hate crime against disabled people is under-reported and rarely comes to court.
Disabled women are twice as likely as non-disabled women to be victims of domestic violence, and four times as likely to experience rape or sexual violence.
Stay Safe East was set up to challenge the barriers to justice and to accessing support services faced by Deaf and disabled people.
“They think just because I’ve got a learning disability,I don’t know it’s wrong to treat me like that. I just want to be safe and live my life.”
Can we help you?
- We provide advocacy and support to disabled people that are experiencing any sort of abuse, harassment or violence.
- We support disabled people in Waltham Forest, Newham, and sometimes in other East London boroughs.
- We provide advocacy and support for victims and survivors in dealing with the police, courts, housing, social services and other agencies.
- Support when appriaching the police or going to court
- We also provide peer support through our Women’s Group.
Since 2010, Stay Safe / Stay Safe East has supported over 200 disabled people – providing a listening ear, helping people report incidents of abuse to the police, social services, transport or housing providers. We also support our users through court cases, and help them access benefits or get re-housed after domestic violence or hate crime.
What does an advocate do?
If you have been the victim of bullying or abuse, it can feel as if you have no control over your life. Our advocates will support you to make choices. We will help you take control again.
Stay Safe East advocates work in partnership with you. We will tell you about the choices you have. We will help you work out a plan to keep you as safe as possible. We will speak out for you if you want us to, or help you speak out for yourself. We are there for you when you need us for as long as you need us.
How we will support you
We listen to your story. We give you time to tell us what happened. It might be the first time you have told someone, or you might have told many people but nothing has happened. Most of our staff and volunteers are disabled people, and we understand how difficult it can be to speak out about abuse or bullying.
We make sure your access or communication needs are met: We can explain things in easy words, or we can provide a BSL (British Sign Language) or spoken language interpreter when you meet with us. We will make sure that other agencies working with you meet these needs too. We agree a plan with you to keep you safe, and what actions you want us to help you with – for example help to tell the police, or to find a safe place to live.
We put together the evidence that is needed, for example for the police to take action, or for you to get an injunction to stop the person who is harassing you. We work with the police to make sure they record and investigate the crime. If it is a hate crime, we can report it to the police without giving your name, so they know there is a problem in that area.
We come to meetings with you and help you speak for yourself, or speak out for you if you are not ready to do that. We can help you to access other support services: counselling, support groups, college etc
We work to help you get a care package, benefits, transport etc. Because we are a disabled people’s organisation that knows about local services, we can advise you about your rights to services and help you negotiate the system.
If we can’t help on a particular issue, we will do our best to find someone who can!
Who can we help
We help disabled or Deaf victims and survivors of abuse. This could be:
-bullying, harassment and anti-social behaviour
-domestic violence (abuse by your partner or family members)
-abuse by carers in your own home or in residential care
-sexual abuse and rape
-we sometimes also help disabled people report other crimes to the police or to their landlord.
If you are not feeling safe, get in touch with us and we will help.
We can support you if the abuse or harassment is happening now and you want something done about it. We can also support you if it happened a long time ago.
Where We Work
We can help you if you live in:
We might also be able to help you if you live in Hackney, Redbridge or Tower Hamlets. If you live in another London borough or out of London, we will help you find an organisation near you that can help you.
We will help anyone who has been abused and is a disabled person or has a long-term health condition. This means:
-people who are physically disabled
-blind or partially sighted people
-deaf and hard of hearing people
-people with learning difficulties
-people with neurological impairments such as dyslexia or Asperger’s Syndrome
-people with mental health issues
-people with long term health conditions like sickle cell anaemia, HIV or diabetes for example.
We support deaf people who are BSL users, including Deaf people with learning disabilities. We are not a Deaf-led organisation, but we do understand deaf culture and the Deaf community. We will provide an interpreter (BSL or Deaf-Blind). We will support you when dealing with the police and other organisations. We will try to make sure that your needs as a deaf person are met and that your culture is respected.
If you are a Deaf woman and you are a victim of domestic violence, you can also contact Deaf Hope, a deaf women’s domestic violence project run by Deaf women.
We recognise that women are at least 5 times more likely to experience domestic abuse than men and that domestic violence is a gender issue.
We offer a women-only advocacy service to any woman who chooses this. Our women’s group is there for support, friendship and social activities.
We work with disabled mothers and with mothers of disabled children, if they have experienced domestic abuse.
We recognise that disabled men are more likely than non-disabled men to experience domestic abuse, so we offer advocacy and support to disabled men. You can choose to have the support of a male advocate if you prefer.
Lesbians, Gay Men and Transgender People
We are an LGBT (Lesbians, Gay Bisexual Transgender) friendly organisation. Some of our staff and volunteers are lesbian or gay. We understand LGBT cultures. We can support you to report homophobic abuse or hate crime or domestic violence from same sex partners or family members. We also understand the barriers faced by Deaf and disabled LGBT people accessing LGBT organisations.
BME (Black & Minority Ethnic) Communities
We work with disabled people from all communities in East London.
We have a diverse staff and volunteer group.
We support disabled people from BME communities to report racist, faith or homophobic hate crime as well as disability hate crime.
We respect your culture, faith and life choices.
Sometimes we work with another organisation to support disabled women or men who are for example victims of forced marriage or disabled women who are victims of Female Genital Mutilation.
If English is not your first language, our staff and volunteers speak Turkish, Bengali and French. We can provide language interpreters where needed.
We know how difficult it can be to leave a violent relationship if you are a disabled parent. You might be worried about your children being taken away if you tell anyone about the abuse. Contact Stay Safe East if you need help.
If you have been a victim of domestic violence and involved in Child in Need / Child Protection proceedings or your child is in care we may be able to help.
Parents and Families of Disabled Children and Adults
We may be able to support you if you are the parent of a disabled child and a victim or survivor of domestic violence. Please contact us for more information. We will support families of disabled people. However, our priority will always be to work with the disabled person directly.
We may be able to support you if you are a carer and want to report abuse against a disabled person who cannot speak out for themselves. If we cannot help, we will refer you to an organisation that can help.
Who We Can’t Help
Sorry, we can’t work with you if you are not disabled (except for parents or families of disabled people, please see above).
Perpetrators of Abuse
Stay Safe East does NOT work with disabled people who are abusers or perpetrators of domestic violence, hate crime or other forms of abuse.
If you are abusing someone and want to stop, please contact:
Respect Phoneline – 0808 802 4040 (phone and text relay) open Monday – Friday 9am-5pm
- If you tell us personal information, we will keep it confidential.
- If you are being harassed or bullied, we can report what happened without giving your name.
If you are a victim of domestic violence, we will keep the information you tell us confidential. We will never talk to your abuser. We will not tell other family members unless you want us to.